There are many ways people around the globe express their
love for each other. John Lennon sang "All You Need is Love".
Mexican poet, Jaime Sabines, wrote, "Love is the most exquisite,
awesome and' unbearable silence". But it was Mahatma Gandhi
who expressed it best of all - "Where there is love," he said "there
is life." And as unique as each person's experience is of love, each
culture has its own tradi ional way of expressing these feelings.
China
The world's moscpopulous nation has one of the richest
traditions regarding love. Before the discovery of Valentine's Day,
the Chinese already had two days set aside for expressing love.
The first is Qi Qiao Jie, or the Chinese Day of Love, which is
celebrated on the seventh day of the seventh month, according to
theChinese calendar. It is the story of two lovers — he, a cowherd
and she, a weaver—who could meet only once a year on a bridge
_formed by magpies. This day then became known as Qi Qiao
Jie: Today, young lovers gather on bridges in parks all over the
country to celebrate this day.
Others in China consider Shang Yuan Jie (known here as Chap
Goh Mei) also called Deng Jie, to be the true Chinese day of love.
An ancient festival celebrated on the 15th day of the first month,
it is one of those rare occasions when maidens leave their homes.
For those who are 'of the age of consent', it is an opportunity not
to be missed. Today, however, Shang Yuan Jie is only celebrated
in remote villages or by very traditional families.
Thailand
Traditionally, in Thailand, young girls who are being courted
are accompanied by family members who gather on the
brightly-lit, front porches of their homes. This is the signal for the
suitors to introduce themselvesahe suitor approaches, accompanied
by one or more male friends. If the girl's family is suitably impressed,
they may allow the suitor to sing a song in her honour.
The suitor must never touch the young woman he woos. If he
commits such a faux pas, the young man must beg forgiveness
from his prospective in-laws by sending gifts of flowers or candles
before seven days have passed. Failure to do so is considered a
grave offence against members of the girl's family, their ancestors
and their spirits. As a result, it is believed, the young man's family
members will experience bad luck.
In the ritual of apology, the father of the girl decides whether
to accept or reject a marriage proposal.
Portugal
Ancient courting traditions in the north of Portugal portray the
female lover as a spinner. According to legend, while embroidering
linen handkerchiefs, the woman transfers her feelings for her
beloved to the cloth before sending it to him. The day of love
differs for each girl, occurring when she finishes embroidering
her handkerchief.
If the young man wore the handkerchief around his neck on
his Sunday walk, it was considered a public acknowledgement
of his commitment to the sender. If he did not want to pledge
himself to her, he would return the handkerchief.
Mexico
Romance in Mexico has a sweeter and more harmonious side.
The custom of serenading a loved one is rooted deeply in Mexican
culture. At night, the suitor visits his beloved's home wittta group of
musicians. They sing love songs until she comes out to receive her
suitor. If she fails to appear, she has rejected his suit.
Serenading is carried out by mariachi bands in Mexico. While
the custom of serenading has declined in many countries, it still
remains popular in Mexico.
Adapted from: The Star
Word bank
populous — padat
faux pas — kesilapan sosial yang memalukan
ancestors — nenek moyang
embroidering — menyulam
serenading — menyanyi, terutamanya untuk
menunjuk rasa kasih sayang
Bulimia nervosa is the name of an eating disorder. People with this illness usually go
through binge-eating (usually when they are alone). During the
time that they are binge eating the sufferers are unable to control how
much they eat, and eat much more than other people would. The sufferers
try to avoid gaining weight from all this food either by dieting or by fasting.
They also behave in certain ways: they vomit immediately after their huge
meal, exercise too much and take laxatives and diuretics— drugs that make
them go to the toilet — to get rid of the food and liquid they have taken.
It is difficult to know whether someone is suffering from bulimia nervosa,
even when the sufferer is a close friend or a family member. People with this
illness usually have normal weight but they are seriously ill. The excessive
eating and vomiting are very bad for the body. In the long term, they, become
tired, and may have liver and kidney damage. Emotionally, they al-e very
unhappy because on the one hand, they cannot control their food cravings but
on the other hand, they feel extremely guilty and hate themselves after they have,
overeaten. All this can lead to depression, as well as alcohol and drug abuse.
People suffer from bulimia nervosa because of the need to have the
'perfect' body so that others will accept them. They also feel that they do
not have enough control over their own lives, and controlling the food they eat is one way in which they do have control. They feel that if they cannot control their world, they can at least control their body. They start dieting in order to get that 'perfect' body. The dieting makes them feel hungry, which leads to an episode of excess eating. They then feel guilty because they have eaten too much and they vomit, over exercise, and so on.
Another factor in this illness is the sufferers' environment. Young people, especially, worry about their friends' opinions, and want to be accepted by them. This peer pressure makes young people feel that they have to look a certain way and do certain things. They are not mature enough to say, "I am my own person, and I know what is good for me." Many famous people, mostly female, suffer from bulimia nervosa because they feel that the media or other people control them, and they have lost control over their own lives.
The first step in curing bulimia nervosa is to treat the person's physical health. Then,
patients can be treated by a psychologist who will try to help them feel that they are of value, and that they can indeed control more than just their food. Family and friends are important during the time of treatment, and must show that they accept and support the sufferers.
They should not blame them for their condition. Perhaps the most important means of preventing bulimia nervosa is education. Young people, especially, should have information about healthy eating and healthy habits. Parents, teachers and friends are the most important people in their social environment, and they must be supportive so that young people have confidence in themselves.
World bank
vomit — muntah
guilty — rasa bersalah
cravings — keinginan
peer — rakan sebaya
Surf the Internet to learn more about other eating disorders.
Answer all the questions. You are advised to answer them in the order set.
1. From paragraph 1,
(a) what does the writer mean by binge-eating? Answer
Binge-eating is eating excessively without being able to control how much you eat. (1 mark)
(b) how do sufferers prevent weight gain? Answer
Sufferers prevent weight gain by dieting or fasting. (1 mark)
2. From the evidence in paragraph 2, give two physical conditions sufferers of
bulimia nervosa experience. Answer
(i) They become tired. (1 mark)
(ii) They may suffer from kidney and liver damage. (1 mark)
3. From the information in paragraphs 3 and 4, give two reasons why people
suffer from bulimia nervosa. Answer
(i) Some people feel that they need a perfect body shape before others can
accept them. (1 mark)
(ii) Some of them lack control over their own lives. They face peer pressure. (Any two) (I mark)
4. From paragraph 5, why should people suffering from bulimia nervosa see
a psychologist? Answer
A psychologist will be able to convince them of their value and help them to feel
that they can control more than just their food. (2 marks)
5. In your own words, explain how parents and teachers can help to prevent
bulimia nervosa in youths. Answer
Parents and teachers must educate the young on healthy eating habits and must
support them in building self-confidence. (2 marks)
Answer all the questions. You are advised to answer them in the order set.
1. From paragraph 1, 'how hard does the human heart work every day? Answer
The human heart beats about 72 times a minute and pumps nearly 14 000 litres
of blood every day. (1 mark)
2 From paragraph 2,
(a) how does arteriosclerosis happen? Answer
Arteriosclerosis happens when the walls of the arteries become thick with fat. (I mark)
(b) the writer mentions that "... blood is not able to flow through them."
What does them refer to? Answer
It refers to the arteries. (1 mark)
3. Based on paragraph 2, give two effects of narrowed arteries.
Blood cannot flow through them and a blood clot may form./Angina or heart pain
may result./The heart does not receive enough oxygen or nutrients. (Any two) (1 mark)
4. From the evidence in Paragraph 3,
(a) what are palpitations? Answer
Palpitations are the fast or irregular beatings of the heart.
(1 mark)
(b) are palpitations that happen too often, or go on for a long time, dangerous?
Explain. Answer
Yes, because it may be a sign of heart disease, especially if the sufferer also
has chest pains. (2 marks)
5. In the passage, The writer states that plants have been used by people to cure
heart illnesses.
(a) From paragraph 6, how does hawthorn help the heart?
Answer
Hawthorn berries lower blood pressure, and the flowers make the heart
stronger. This herb also helps to ease chest pains. (1 mark)
(b) From paragraph 7, how does garlic help the heart? Answer
Garlic reduces high blood pressure and cholesterol and helps blood circulate
through our body. (1 mark)
FORM 4 Reading Comprehension 7
READ & UNDERSTAND
Read the passage below and answer the questions.
Answer all the questions. You are advised to answer them in the order set.
1. (a) From paragraph 1,
why did the writer decide not to go sailing that day? Answer
There was no wind.
(b) What did he opt to do instead? Answer
He decided to go water skiing. (1 mark)
2. What did the .writer mean when he said, 'That was basically what happened
next' (line 9)? Answer
The volume of water under them rose up into a huge wave. (2 marks)
3. From the evidence in paragraph 2, explain why the driver of the boat could
not steer the boat away from the wave. Answer
The boat was not powerful enough and the current was too strong.
From paragraphs 2 and 3,
4. (a) did the writer feel safer out in the open sea or when he was being pushed
the pool area of the hotel? Answer
He felt safer in the open sea. (1 mark)
(b) justify your answer with information from the text. Answer
The writer said he felt safe with the life jacket on but when he was pushed into
the hotel, he suddenly felt frightened. (2 marks)
5. What kept the writer alive? Answer
His life jacket.
FORM 4 Reading Comprehension 8
READ & UNDERSTAND
Read the passage below and answer the questions.
Answer all the questions. You are advised to answer them in the order set.
1. From paragraph 1, why does the writer feel like James Bond? Answer
He feels like James Bond because of the number of gadgets he has.
(2 marks)
2. From paragraph 2, why did the writer buy a PDA? Give two reasons.
Answer
(i) To use as a diary ( I mark)
(ii) It looked good and had a colour screen (I mark)
3. From paragraph 3,
(a) what problem did the writer have with his iPod? Answer
He did not know how to adjust the contrast of the screen.
(1 mark) (b) how do'yoii think he finally figured it out? Answer
He probably learnt it fromhis friends. (1 mark)
4. From paragraph 6, what problems does the writer have with his e-mail account? Answer
He has too many 'accounts and cannot keep track of the addresses.
(2 marks)
5. From paragraph 8, explain what the line 'we can do just fine on our own' means. Answer
It means that we are responsible for all the problems we face with our
gadgets. It is not the fault of the gadgets. (2 marks)
Answer all questions.
You are advised to answer them in the order set.
1. From paragraph 1, 'according to the writer,
(a) why are Tunku Abdul Rahman's name and the independence of Malaya often
mentioned together? Answer
Tunku Abdul Rahman played a dynamic role in Malaysia's fight
for independence. (1 mark)
(b) what does the word 'endearingly' say about the feelings of the people
towards Tunku? Answer
It shows the people's love for Tunku. (1 mark)
2. From paragraph 2, describe Tunku's early years in Kedah. Answer
He had a happy childhood playing with the village boys near his house. He studied
in Bangkok and Penang and had his tertiary education in Cambridge University,
England. (2 marks)
3 Based on paragraph 3, why did Tunku Abdul Rahman stop reading law? Answer
World War 2 broke out, so he had to return home. (2 marks)
4 From paragraphs 4 and 5, give two examples to show that Tunku was able to get
along with people from all walks of fife. Answer
(a) He was willing to eat and drink with the villagers in their homes or in
coffee shops. (1 mark) (b) He often gathered students together to discuss important current issues when
he was the President of the Malay Society of Great Britain. (1 mark)
5 From the evidence in paragraph 7, give two examples to show why Tunku Abdul
Rahman deserved the title Bapa Malaysia. Answer
(a) He negotiated with the British and gained independence for Malaya. (1 mark)
FORM 4 Reading Comprehension 10
READ & UNDERSTAND
Read the passage below and answer the questions.
Answer all questions.
You are advised to answer them in the order set.
1. From paragraph 1, give two reasons why exotic animals are hunted. Answer
(a) For their meat [1 mark]
(b) To be kept as pets
[1 mark]
2. From paragraph 2,
(a) who should be blamed for the smuggling of exotic animals? Answer
The public should be blamed [I mark]
(b) in what way are the retailers of pet shops going against the law? Answer
They sell exotic animals as pets openly [1 mark] 3. From paragraph 3,
(a) how can exotic animals pose a health threat to human beings? Answer
Many exotic animals carry unknown diseases which can be transmitted to
human beings. (1 mark)
(b) how can exotic animals pose a health threat to the local animal population? Answer
Exotic animals may spread diseases to the local animal population. (1 mark)
4. Explain, in your own words, how exotic animals are threatened with extinction. Answer
If more animals are killed, their numbers will reduce greatly and soon, they will
become extinct.
(2 mark)
5. From paragraph 4,
(a) why does the writer say that the animals live in misery? Answer
They are forced to live in very different conditions to those of their natural
habitat. They find it difficult to adapt to the new environment and as a result,
they will become miserable. (1 mark)
(b) why were the Flowerhorn fish abandoned? Answer
The Flowerhorn fish were abandoned because people lost interest in keeping
them as pets.
- (1 mark)